How To Communicate with Humans in 2020

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Is it Just Me or Is Communication Changing and not in a good way?

In 2020 communication is much different from how it was just a short 15 years ago. Before if you wanted to connect with someone you would write them a letter, call them on the phone or you would knock on their door bell. Obviously things have changed because now you can: email, fax, text, Facetime and message in numerous applications.

While it’s great to be able to send a quick text to tell someone whatever, if you are trying to have an actual relationship with someone, modern forms of technology just don’t bring the connection that many people yearn for.

Talking is a Great Form of Communication

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Throughout careers many people are required to talk to others. Teachers do it and lawyers, doctors, nurses and many professions talk during their career. How would you feel if your Doctor texted you instead of an actual physical exam and conversation? They just give you a thumbs up and end the appointment. Most people would probably feel brushed off and like they weren’t really listened to or understood.

With many people if their primary method of communication is via texting and messaging what happens to their verbal skills? Talking is a skill that requires practice just like anything else.

Sometimes you get tired of talking when you work. Then when you deal with your significant other all you get is a thumbs up or often times no response whatsoever to a text message. Is this because there’s just too much information and so they really cannot connect with you because they are too busy on social media or whatever other distraction. It can definitely harm relationships? Makes you wonder…

How To Improve Communication?

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Often time people really do want to connect with other people. But often times it turns into a frustration game of cat and mouse. So how can you improve your communication? If it’s someone you really want to connect with a phone conversation of video chat is a great way to connect. You might have to schedule a time to talk. And here are some great conversation starters.

“Hello, how are you?” “How was your day?” “What have you been up to lately?” And then watch the conversation blossom as the dialog goes back and forth. It might start out simple and next thing you know your discussing Japanese fashion. If someone tells you, “I was watching a movie.” Don’t just say, “OK bye, you’re busy.” Ask this person, “Really? What movie are you watching? Is it good? I haven’t seen it.” Maybe they will say, “Come on Over.” Or maybe you might realize after you find out what kind of movies they watch that this person is a moron and you don’t want anything to do with them but if you didn’t talk to them, you would never know.

The main point is that conversation is a great way to connect with someone.

You Can’t Go Back

2020 is here and we can’t go back to the way things used to be. But if you find someone that you enjoy their conversation, don’t be afraid to call them up and say hi. Also if you find it difficult to talk to others, that just means you need to do it more. Reading will help you come up with words to say. But if you stop talking at some point you might become mute.

Valeria is a Health and Wellness Coach living in Northern California. She encourages everyone to follow their passions.

How to Get World Peace according to a Tarot Reading

Solzana.com did a Tarot Reading for Mother Earth

Why a Tarot Reading For World Peace?

I had the opportunity to sit down with Mayra of Solzana.com and she did a reading for Mother Earth. You won’t want to miss What we can do right now to save the planet. I also asked what are we going to do about all of the plastic. We started the readings off here.

I asked is how we can have world peace regarding Mother Earth.

We can’t give up on following what we innately think is good. We lose ourselves in what we should be doing because that’s what people tell us to do but we have an internal guidance. It’s a guidance from the heavens. It’s starting to listen to our inner voices and don’t give up as a society because some people give up on things. We can’t give up as a society because some of us brush things off because we are so used to seeing bad things happen that it becomes normalized.

We can’t give up and we have to try to get more in touch with people’s feelings. Before we used to have conversations and now we’re more disconnected from each other. Because we have mediums that have come between us that are impeding us from making that human connection.We’ve lost empathy for the greater good.

Back in the days people would take time off of work to go to a civil rights movement. But now people will not take time off for that. We have taken a more laid back approach but it’s mainly because we are so numb to what is going on. We need to get touch with our feelings so we can feel and then have that drive to stand up for another person that may not be able to stand up for themselves. We need to do that reconnection. There are many things that we do not care about.

We have to return to a time when we were like children. Because when you are a child and innocent when you see bad things happen it affects you more. It’s because you are wiser when you are a child because what you feel is real.

The page of swords, we haven’t been standing up for individuals. Form coalitions and not let things slide. Also with our own families, we have to reconnect with them. The communication has broken down.

Especially with children the communication has broken down and that’s why there are many children that are alienated and feel isolated and depressed and then they get these ideologies that need to be put in check but nobody is talking to them.

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Our society is based on overindulgence. We over indugle too much in the material so much that we are not thinking about the greater good of society.If we open our hearts more to others that it will be a better planet. But if we keep up with always wanting to overindugle there will always have to share the wealth. Don’t hog the $$, you need to share it for the greater good. If we share than there won’t be people starving. There’s enough food to go around but it’s because we are hogging it.

Let’s spend time with our families.

We need human connection, communication and it’s not about you but what can you do for others. But it isn’t just one person who can do it but we all need to do it.

Thanks again Mayra for doing this reading and let’s start communicating with one another. We got this it’s not that hard. XOXO